My Life, My Thoughts, My Obsessions

New Blog

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 05:46:00 +0000

Friends, I have a new blog, which is http://goodgirlbadblog.blogspot.com/

Relocating for no obvious reason :)

New and better I hope.

Come, follow me.

See you there.

2008 Hairstyles

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Wed, 26 Mar 2008 06:37:00 +0000

Thinking of getting a new hair do? These look really nice ;)

Revamping Done So Far

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 04:42:00 +0000

Orange is the new black :P I have changed the layout a bit, not really extreme as i love this blog just the way it is ;)

I've added in a few little details (eg flower) i love it! :

Thinking of having a black background but no i dun think so.

See also: Blog Revamping Resolution

Yesterdays Accidents!

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 01:35:00 +0000

On my way back home from office yesterday, at approx. 6pm, I witnessed three separate accidents at the 3rd Mile flyover *gasp* which involved 5 vehicles (afaics) and 1 lamp post. Uh. That was scary. I had involved in a minor accident myself way back in 2004. I think they call it Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (is it that bad?). I have problem with people speeding on the road (unless when I myself is at the driver's seat hahaha). I think my boyfriend is having a hard time driving with me saying "slow down!" every 5 seconds even when he's driving at 60kmph (lols).

To sum it all, I hate to see accidents, the sound of ambulance emergency sirens and urghh seeing blood splattered on the road! Yesterday's sight was bad enough! Please be careful on the road and no speeding unless you're an ambulance driver.

Self Declared Chocoholic : Daim Is The Best Ever!

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Tue, 04 Mar 2008 03:36:00 +0000

I'm in love with Daim! Go buy yourself some Daim candy/choc bar now! =)

DAIM according to Wikipedia:

The Daim bar (known prior to September 2005 as the Dime bar in the United Kingdom and the Republic of Ireland, when Kraft Foods rebranded it to bring the product in line with the rest of Europe) is a crunchy butter almond bar covered in milk chocolate that originated in Sweden in 1953, produced by the Swedish company Marabou, originally a subsidiary of the Norwegian company Freia. The Dime bar was created after years of research into a similar product produced by the American company Heath. Marabou's Vice President Lars Anderfelt asked to license the Heath product in the early 1950's, but Heath refused. However, they gave a list of the ingredients to Anderfeldt. After three years of tinkering the crunchy centre was perfected, and with the addition of the distinctive Marabou milk chocolate Daim was created. It was tested in Stockholm with great success, and later in 1953 it was launched in Sweden and Norway. The brand is now owned by Kraft Foods. Daim bars are very popular in Scandinavia and the United Kingdom. It is comparable to the American Skor or Heath brands. While unknown in the United States, Daim bars imported from Sweden are sold in all US IKEA Stores.

Daim bars were featured in a successful mid-nineties television commercial campaign in the United Kingdom featuring Harry Enfield and armadillos. In it, Daim bars were contrasted with armadillos, with a Daim bar being smooth on the outside and crunchy on the inside, and an armadillo being smooth on the inside and crunchy on the outside.

In 2007 a 'Limited Edition Cappuccino' Daim bar was released

News on "DAIM":

12-Aug-2005 - Kraft Foods is to re-brand Dime bars in the UK in a long awaited move to standardize the name of the popular crunchy milk chocolate bars throughout Europe.

The new spelling- "Daim"- is being used for the product in other countries, and the company claims that well-traveled UK consumers will already be familiar with the name.

"We have carefully weighed up the pros and cons of the name change. This is an international product and so it is preferable for it to have a fully harmonized brand name and trademark," said Bjorn Thorvaldsen, category director of Kraft Nordic confectionery.

The company does not believe the change will affect sales or consumer acceptance.

"The product has a strong trade dress-up, with colours, design and a logo that stand out.

We are confident that people will recognize "Daim" as the chocolate they know and love," Thorvaldsen told BakeryAndSnacks.com.

Manufacturer Kraft Foods said Daim is especially popular in Scandinavia, with major markets for the product being Denmark, Finland, France, Germany, Norway, Sweden and the UK.

The chocolate already underwent a re-branding in the Nordic region the 1980's, when the original name, "Dajm"- which it held since the 1960's- was changed to the more international "Daim

Pay Per Play

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Mon, 03 Mar 2008 07:09:00 +0000

I have just recently registered for this PPP Net Audio Ads programme. Amazingly, although officially launched on February 1, 2008, there still appear to be first tier positions available for those who act quickly. If you would like to hear an audio ad, watch a short video explaining this revolutionary new form of internet advertising, and learn how to join pay-per-play net audio ads, please click on the preceding link.

Net Audio Ads PPP is a new concept in internet marketing whereby a Web page, after the insertion of a snippet of code, plays a 5 second audio clip from a third-party advertiser. Webmasters maintain sole discretion over which pages on their website play the ads. A server-side visitor tracking element ensures that no one visitor hears more than one pay-per-play audio ad every 3 minutes. The system pays each time an audio ad clip is run, regardless of whether the visitor actually hears the ad, or not.

This platform is truly revolutionary, for now ad publishers can get paid without their visitors ever having to click off of their websites.

How Does Net Audio Ads Pay-Per-Play Pay?

First, net audio ad publishers are paid 25% of whatever an advertiser spends “per play” when their audio ad gets played. Advertising rates have been set taking into account the fact that 20% of internet users do not have their audio systems turned on, so only 80% of their target market will actually hear their ad.

Second, an ad publisher gets paid 5% of whatever an advertiser spends “per play” on ads served through websites referred by the publisher.

Third, get paid 5% on advertisers “per play” spend on ads served on websites referred by the previous level’s websites.

Even if you have a website with traffic volume facing seasonal fluctuations, landscape contractors, roofers, swimming pool installers, etc., the potential for a secondary income stream from your website seems clear when you consider that Pay-Per-Play pays on 100% of the traffic to your website.

Come Here

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Mon, 07 Jan 2008 05:44:00 +0000

This is dedicated to my good friend. Its amazing how a long thoughtful conversation on a rainy night can change your whole view on some things and the way you lived your life all this while.

Reminder to myself: What is lepak without beer? Tihihihihi =p

Revamping Blog

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Sat, 05 Jan 2008 04:36:00 +0000

I've been thinking about revamping my blog. New year new blog =p Changing theme and I'm going to get rid of the old baby day's scripts and all the boring girly animations. Put in more black, perhaps.

*think!~think!~think!*

p/s: And I need to constantly remind myself of the original goal and purpose of this blog.

HNY08

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Sat, 05 Jan 2008 01:53:00 +0000

Just wanna wish a Happy New Year 2008 to all my fellow bloggers. Funny, this year none of my friends said anything about resolutions. I had mine though. But that doesn't matter anyway cos by the 3rd day of 2008, I have already cancelled off some my new year resolutions (yes I can!) reason being, some of them weren't REALISTIC enough =p

Few days to NY, I thought of these as resolutions. I was determined like what. Ceh.

Following a healthy course of diet everyday.
Going for regular walks in morning and evening.
Going for regular check ups with the doctor if any physical ailments exist.
Stop drinking alcohol.
Quit smoking.
Being more organized and disciplined at home and office.

Then by 3rd Jan, I found some of them to be very unrealistic. So:

Following a healthy course of diet everyday.
~~Going for regular walks in morning and evening.~~
~~Going for regular check ups with the doctor if any physical ailments exist.~~
~~Stop drinking alcohol.~~
~~Quit smoking.~~
Being more organized and disciplined at home and office.

By June I think I'm going to have a LONG empty list!

What's a partridge and a pear tree?

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Fri, 14 Dec 2007 07:25:00 +0000

The "true love" mentioned in the song is not an earthly suitor, but refers to God Himself. The "me" who receives the presents refers to every baptized person who is part of the Christian Faith. Each of the "days" represents some aspect of the Christian Faith.

On the 1st day of Christmas my true love gave to me...

A Partridge in a Pear Tree

The partridge in a pear tree is Jesus the Christ, the Son of God, whose birthday we celebrate on December 25, the first day of Christmas. In the song, Christ is symbolically presented as a mother partridge that feigns injury to decoy predators from her helpless nestlings, recalling the expression of Christ's sadness over the fate of Jerusalem: "Jerusalem! Jerusalem! How often would I have sheltered you under my wings, as a hen does her chicks, but you would not have it so . . . ." (Luke 13:34)

On the 2nd day of Christmas my true love gave to me...

Two Turtle Doves

The Old and New Testaments, which together bear witness to God's self-revelation in history and the creation of a people to tell the Story of God to the world.

On the 3rd day of Christmas my true love gave to me...

Three French Hens

The Three Theological Virtues:

1) Faith,
2) Hope, and
3) Love (1 Corinthians 13:13)

On the 4th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Four Calling Birds

The Four Gospels: 1) Matthew, 2) Mark, 3) Luke, and 4) John, which proclaim the Good News of God's reconciliation of the world to Himself in Jesus Christ.

On the 5th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Five Gold Rings

The first Five Books of the Old Testament, known as the Torah or the Pentateuch:

1) Genesis,
2) Exodus,
3) Leviticus,
4) Numbers, and
5) Deuteronomy,
which gives the history of humanity's sinful failure and God's response of grace in the creation of a people to be a light to the world.

On the 6th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Six Geese A-laying

The six days of creation that confesses God as Creator and Sustainer of the world (Genesis 1).

On the 7th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Seven Swans A-swimming

The seven gifts of the Holy Spirit:

1) prophecy,
2) ministry,
3) teaching,
4) exhortation,
5) giving,
6) leading, and
7) compassion (Romans 12:6-8; cf. 1 Corinthians 12:8-11)

On the 8th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Eight Maids A-milking

The eight Beatitudes:

1) Blessed are the poor in spirit,
2) those who mourn,
3) the meek,
4) those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,
5) the merciful,
6) the pure in heart,
7) the peacemakers,
8) those who are persecuted for righteousness' sake. (Matthew 5:3-10)

On the 9th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Nine Ladies Dancing

The nine Fruit of the Holy Spirit:

1) love,
2) joy,
3) peace,
4) patience,
5) kindness,
6) generosity,
7) faithfulness,
8) gentleness, and
9) self-control. (Galatians 5:22)

On the 10th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Ten Lords A-leaping

The ten commandments:

1) You shall have no other gods before me;
2) Do not make an idol;
3) Do not take God's name in vain;
4) Remember the Sabbath Day;
5) Honor your father and mother;
6) Do not murder;
7) Do not commit adultery;
8) Do not steal;
9) Do not bear false witness;
10) Do not covet. (Exodus 20:1-17)

On the 11th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Eleven Pipers Piping

The eleven Faithful Apostles:

1) Simon Peter,
2) Andrew,
3) James,
4) John,
5) Philip,
6) Bartholomew,
7) Matthew,
8) Thomas,
9) James bar Alphaeus,
10) Simon the Zealot,
11) Judas bar James. (Luke 6:14-16).
The list does not include the twelfth disciple, Judas Iscariot who betrayed Jesus to the religious leaders and the Romans.

On the 12th day of Christmas my true love gave to me...
Twelve Drummers Drumming

The twelve points of doctrine in the Apostles' Creed:

1) I believe in God, the Father almighty, creator of heaven and earth.
2) I believe in Jesus Christ, his only Son, our Lord.
3) He was conceived by the power of the Holy Spirit and born of the virgin Mary.
4) He suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, died, and was buried. He descended into hell [the grave].
5) On the third day he rose again. He ascended into heaven, and is seated at the right hand of the Father.
6) He will come again to judge the living and the dead.
7) I believe in the Holy Spirit,
8) the holy catholic Church,
9) the communion of saints,
10) the forgiveness of sins,
11) the resurrection of the body,
12) and life everlasting.

The Song

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Fri, 14 Dec 2007 06:52:00 +0000

On the 12 days of christmas..my true love gave to me:

A Partridge in a Pear Tree.

Two Turtle Doves,

Three French Hens,

Four Calling Birds,

Five Golden Rings,

Six Geese-a-Laying,

Seven Swans-a-Swimming,

Eight Maids-a-Milking,

Nine Ladies Dancing,

Ten Lords-a-Leaping,

Eleven Pipers Piping,

Twelve Drummers Drumming.

Twelve Days of Christmas?

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Fri, 14 Dec 2007 06:36:00 +0000

Listened to the 12 Days of Christmas by Relient K. Cool one.

"What's a partridge?

and whats a pear tree?

I don't know so please don't ask me..

But I can bet those are terrible gifts to get."

And at least I know what's a partridge and a pear tree. LOLS at Relient K .

Snowflakes

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Fri, 30 Nov 2007 09:20:00 +0000

I am putting the snowflakes effects today cos tomorrow is already December... Yipee!~

-but-

*sigh* Time flies so fast and yet so little achievements for the year..

-but-

Let's just pretend we're excited about Christmas & the New Year and not spoil the fun (everybody else's fun, that is) =)

Enchanted vs Stardust

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Thu, 29 Nov 2007 03:27:00 +0000

VS.

I watched both Stardust and Enchanted lastweek and yesterday respectively. Love them both.. Charlie Cox and Patrick Dempsey are both hot hot hot (LOLS).. But anyhow.. Stardust was entertaining and Enchanted was enlightening.

Stardust was purely fantasy and about witchcraft too (Michelle Pfeiffer looks beautiful). As for Enchanted, it was a mix of fantasy (fairy tale) and reality.. Both speaks of the possibilty of finding your true love (which I think happens only in my fantasy).

And not all the things in fairy tales are possible in reality, but anyhow they lived happily ever after (as all fairy tales endings should be).

After all that, i think i'm giving Stardust and Enchanted both 4 out of 5 =)

Friends and Feelings

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Thu, 29 Nov 2007 03:05:00 +0000

Hello world. It has been a while since I last posted anything in here.. The day started very good as usual I was in a very good mood for work.. (Late as usual too) LOLS.

That wasn't the problem though.. The problem is there is always some people out there who never care about other people's feelings, never have respect for other people regardless of those people's importance in their lives.. This is very inhuman (for me) because as all human are born with feelings..

The thing is, few hours ago, there is a friend who never seem to say anything good to me (I exaggerated a bit here..Hehe). A simple Hi how r u is good enuff. But no, this "funny" friend started it with sarcasm, like an insult. Maybe I'm overreacting but my other friend also agreed that it was some form of an insult. And this is not the first time. And also not the first person I know who behave this way.. I remember my brother once said to me. If you want to have a great day, make other ppl smile, give gifts, say thank you, be nice and your day will end with you going to bed smiling. That is very true. Why is it so hard to just be nice to people, make friends, make your friends laugh and make other people happy. It would really make your day.

To my friend(s) if you're reading this, (I'm not sure if you realize it's you that I'm talking about) but if you do, I want to apologize for after all these time that we've been friends, I still don't understand you.

To all the others, please be nice to other ppl, in terms of your daily language or actions. I never heard ppl die due to doing excessive kindness, anyway.

Work n Play

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Sun, 11 Nov 2007 13:01:00 +0000

I am currently in Bintulu (thank God there is such thing as a wifi zone)..The journey started at 8am (plus plus, no minus) and we safely arrived at approx 6pm. Feeling weird in an unfamiliar place. Along the way I thought of the ppl I'd call as soon as I arrive..Frens, families, nightouts..But I changed my mind. Just want to be alone, relax, do my work and no play (shopping excluded =P)..

I'd be free tomorrow, whole day of online and shopping. I hope I won't get lost and won't bump into anyone I know. Maybe make a few calls and find a 'tourist' guide, jalan jalan cari makan under the sun, go shopping until patah kaki. Fuh. Sounds like fun. Having said that, I might change my mind again...and do shopping on e-bay instead (I'm not too keen about the 'sun' part) hehehe..

Shiro Left Me...

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Tue, 16 Oct 2007 03:37:00 +0000

My only son has left me for a sexier mom and better dog food somewhere else..I am now an alcoholic and a dying old woman...

Long time no see, bloggers... *wink*

Shiro's First Pict :)

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Thu, 02 Aug 2007 00:59:00 +0000

Shiro's first pict (alone) taken yesterday.

Puppy Love

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Mon, 30 Jul 2007 02:27:00 +0000

We adopted a puppy on Saturday 28th July hence the "birth date" of Shiro (named after Shin Chan's puppy), although he's approximately a month old. This is my 1st experience in puppyhood he he he.

Close To You (Carpenters)

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Sun, 17 Jun 2007 02:41:00 +0000

Why do birds suddenly appear
Every time you are near?
Just like me, they long to be
Close to you.

Why do stars fall down from the sky
Every time you walk by?
Just like me, they long to be
Close to you.

On the day that you were born
The angels got together
And decided to create a dream come true
So they sprinkled moon dust in your hair of gold
And starlight in your eyes of blue.

That is why all the girls in town
Follow you all around.
Just like me, they long to be
Close to you.

On the day that you were born
The angels got together
And decided to create a dream come true
So they sprinkled moon dust in your hair of gold
And starlight in your eyes of blue.

That is why all the girls in town
Follow you all around.
Just like me, they long to be
Close to you.
Just like me (Just like me)
They long to be
Close to you.

True Love?

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Sat, 16 Jun 2007 11:05:00 +0000

An article by Christine Akiteng: 20 Signs You Found Your True Love. **It's a SIGN! :)

20 ways to know that you are with the right person:

1. You feel very comfortable with one another, as if you have known each other longer than you actually have.

2. You tend to agree with one another on most issues, and there is a feeling of warm familiarity surrounding your personal belief systems, values, philosophies and life goals.

3. You instinctively consider each other as equals and no one person does more sacrificing to be with the other.

4. You are very much involved in one another's daily affairs and conversations between the two of you are generally mentally stimulating and lively.

5. You joke around with each other a lot, and your relationship is spontaneous and light, adding a happy and friendly boost to your interactions.

6. You nurture each other with specialized attention, mutual appreciation, acceptance, admiration and playfulness; these keep the romance alive.

7. You enjoy spending plenty of quite time together in homely surroundings giving true meaning to the words feeling "at home" with one another.

8. Open communication is alive and thriving, making it possible to be yourselves with one another.

9. There is a shared feeling of growth and support of one another and both of you give each other room to grow as a self-directed independent individual.

10. You are more able than most couples to remain objective about your relationship and to work through problems that most couples find very difficult to deal with.

11. You are warm, gracious, compassionate and flexible with one another, and tend to expect the best from one another.

12. You easily forgive each other when things go wrong and trusting one another keeps you closer.

13. You are quite protective (not possessive or controlling) of one another and of the privacy of your romantic lives. Others see you as a positively bonded and caring couple.

14. There is no fear of losing the other and commitment to each other and dedication to your relationship are important for your sense of security as a couple.

15. There is an earthy sensuality to your relationship and the sexual chemistry between you is so apparent it's almost tangible.

16. Expressing yourselves emotionally and sexually comes naturally and without inhibitions. Feeling secure with one another puts you in the “mood" for intimacy and strengthens your affections for one another.

17. Together you are able to take big risks knowing that you will always have reach other and can always count on each other.

18. There is a whole lot of positive energy generated between the two of you, and together, you are enthusiastic about life itself.

19. The longer you're with each other, the stronger your relationship becomes.

20. The relationship is so life-changing that you know without a doubt in your heart that if it were to end, you will take something from it. You feel that you are somehow a different and better person.

Hopefully this information will put your heart and mind to rest. But if it causes you to feel “uneasy" then you need to really look at who you are with. You can be honest with yourself and face the pain that comes with the realization that you may not be with the right person for you, or you can ignore it now and later regret why knowing what you know you still pursued a relationship that was not good for you. The beauty of all this is that you have the power over what you choose to do!

After The New Year

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Fri, 15 Jun 2007 10:38:00 +0000

Yes, you heard it right. Gawai was the New Year for us Iban. And same old me. Now that i realize I haven't posted anything since before my birthday, i guess i have to pay for it don't I.

The Trip Back
I can't recall what it was that made us started the trip at 12noon. I wasn't doing anything that morning..or was I?Hm..But anyway noon it was. With aircond rosak and the radio was also no-use uwa u can imagine just how boring the whole trip was and I was driving all alone! Baby drove the other car. Arrived at rumahpanjai around 5pm. Luckily it only rained after I arrived. One good news, now handphones are pakai-able in the kampung, yeah, meaning to say, we are FINALLY civilized lols.

The Arrival
Nyum nyum the smell of Tuak was in the air. The longhouse decided not to celebrate Gawai this year, mom said. But with all the people already there, who can say what will the year's celebration be like.

The Forgotten Birthday
It wasn't until sis reminded mom that she laughed and wished me happy belated birthday. "How old r u this year baby? 27?". Mom, please.

The 31st
The New Year's Eve! I can't really recall what actually happened. I was one minute drinking mom's tuak and one minute sleeping, then every now and then peeking out the door out into the ruai to see who's already drunk (as usual it was the Tuai Rumah's wife lols).

Oh yes, how can I forget the tiring cooking hours! There were only three of us girls, me mom and sis and with visitors already coming, there were only me and sis left in the kitchen while mom was busy entertaining the visitors (and herself). Dad couldn't drink anymo (no alcohol please) so mom had to take charge. Sis was a very good cook, so everything was fast and simple. Most of the time, like any other longhouse celebrations, the visitors eat so little cos they were already drunk.

The Ai Pengayu
Ai Pengayu is still the same Tuak only it was what we call the one we drink at midnight of 31st which means New Year! We gather at the Ruai with our own bottle of Tuak for each family. Usually people only pour a tiny amount, just as a symbol. Becos normally we drink it at one go (one go langgak) while we silently make our personal new year's wish. But me brother was the one responsible for pouring the full glass of Tuak. I drank happily though, cos I always loved the taste of Tuak better than any other alcohol based drinks or whatever. So they we were, I think sis didn't even made any wish cos she concentrated too much on finishing the whole glass lols. I did made mine, and it's a secret. If it comes true I'll tell you *wink*

The First Day of Gawai
Woke up at 6am and there were already drunk ppl in the house. The rest of the day, you go figure.

The Rest Of Gawai
Like I said, it was sleeping, drinking, eating, then sleeping again, entertaining the guests, looked for mom/dad when their friends came etc.. I didn't sleep much, only had naps which were making me dizzier than I already was.

Trip Back To Kuching
No aircond, no radio, I arrived in Kuching safely anyway and I had a fun holiday. So that was "no Gawai celebration this year". Next time I know what to expect when mom say "the Longhouse decided to celebrate Gawai this year." I think I'll bring some friends from Kuching to help me in the kitchen. :)

2007-1982=?

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Sat, 26 May 2007 15:21:00 +0000

25! Yes correct! 25 means 10+10+5. I'm fat, old and enjoying it! Still the same ol' me and I'm proud to say that I still stick to the same way of thinking. I still think just like ME. Happy birthday to you, Me.

My Thoughts on Relationships and Men!

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Sat, 26 May 2007 14:34:00 +0000

(This is just a reminder that my birthday falls on the 29th hehehe..) Yes, I'll be 25, but one thing I realize, I'm coming to 25 years old of age and I still don't understand MEN and the many deadly potholes of relationships! I wonder how is it possible for a two entirely different species (ie. a man and a woman) to live under one roof for the rest of their lives! This is what I think about relationships and men in general.

1. MEN: I have learnt to accept that men are not women (obviously) so they don't normally say mushy mushy stuff (except the guilty ones)!

2. MEN: Men are men and the normal ones always always look at other girls! If your man doesn't, you can start to worry.

3. RELATIONSHIP NEEDS: A lot of fighting (say what you don't like out loud and start a fight then listen as both sides "really" spill out the hurtful truths)!

4. RELATIONSHIP ALSO NEEDS: A lot of hugging (I think a hug means more than a kiss *wink*)

5. LASTING RELATIONSHIP?: I have no idea. Learn from other lasting couples (observe and realize what your r'ship is lacking and try to improve).

6. HOW DO YOU KNOW HE's THE ONE?: Ask any married friends and they'll say "I dunno, u just know. U know...?" No, I don't know. Don't you think your exes were the one and they are now your exes? No, they are not The One at all. Or we just get married with the man we are involved with by the time we reach 28? (Reminds me of Delphine, a character in Women Like Us). I will never know.

And when I finally get married, when some lucky girl ask me the same "how do you know" question, I'm going to answer "I dunno, u just know. U know...?" Hahahaha (evil laugh).Let them suffer the same way I did!Revenge! No lah, my real answer would be:

Version 1 (If the curious girl is younger than 25): "I was 25 when I really thought about this seriously, and you're only 18 (or whatever number less than 25) so i think you'll find the answer sooner than I did."

Version 2 (If the curious "girl" is older than 25): "I was 25 when I really thought about this seriously, and you're already 28 (or whatever number more than 25) so i think you just have to marry any man you date by the end of this year."

(Typing and laughing.)

Today's Quote

noreply@blogger.com (Miss Bliss) — Sat, 12 May 2007 05:21:00 +0000

I love today's quote. The truth is rarely pure and never simple.(Oscar Wilde).